Bad Roommate – We cannot pick our roommates or family members

I am pleased and looking forward to Restraining Order hearing this Tuesday morning. The victim prays that the abuser will be ordered to move out.

The latest domestic violence incidents during May and April 2020 are described first:

  1. “Protected person” David A. Dailey (DAD) awoke in the middle of the night – around 12:30 – with muscle cramps and coughing. He noticed that LT (Leland Terry) had turned off the house heat sometime after 10:30 p.m. on May 7, 2020. It was 52 degrees outside and the bathroom window was left open. LT persists in turning off the house heater when he goes to bed; asking no one if it is OK.
  2. LT violated the 6-foot distance rule on May 6, 7, 8, and 9th more than once every day. No apologies are ever offered.
  1. In addition to infractions of ‘social distancing’, LT does not observe other preventive measures recommended by the CDC. He rarely washes his hands, too. Never wears a mask around the house. Rarely does laundry. Does not shower every day. Sorts through the food donations from Samaritan House without washing his hands first.
  1. Typically, LT wakes up before his roommate TR, coughs, sneezes, and other unsanitary things while sitting on the side of his bed facing his roommate, rather than doing such behaviors in the bathroom.
  1. Sometime before May 7, 2020, LT cancelled two of four meals donated daily from Samaritan House. LT did so without speaking to any of his roommates. Roommate Antonio Radovan and LT are the only ones who were able to eat donated food throughout Mothers’ Day weekend.
  1. LT goads/urges on DAD into fighting him, saying “Hit me!” The specific dates were not recorded or logged. Roommate Tony Radovan has been a witness.
  1. When LT gets too close, like on May 2nd, DAD said, “Stay away from me. You stay away!”
  1. On Sunday, May 10, 2020, DAD found the Sunday newspaper he purchased for $3 in the trash.
  1. DAD is the victim of numerous passive-aggressive incidents.
  2. They both are relentless on their complaints of my coughing and sneezing – like I (DAD) have any control of where and when I cough and sneeze. They complained again on Thursday, May 14, 2020, of this and my passing of gas (farting), my burning of two saucepans dry of two saucepans during the last five (5) months.
  3. The “protected person” David Arthur Dailey, now may need more R.O.s; the latest against the spouse of Mr. Kanavao PeteloMrs. Katalina Petelo, who swung and hit him in the neck with her heavy metal walking cane on Monday, January 13, 2020 – in addition to the two (2) signed on Wednesday, December 12, 2019; incidentally, on Mr. Dailey’s 66th birthday.
  4. I (DAD) pray that the court will grant my request.
  5. LT was the last roommate added to this unlicensed care home. Tony Radovan became a resident before him. DAD has lived at 1561 since October 2017 (for over 2 years). Therefore, LT should be the first occupant to be moved out.
  6. DAD has been cleaning up after him and trying to help improve LT’s quality of life for over a year without success.
  7. The landlady operates 3-4 licensed care homes for the elderly and disabled. There are better places for LT to live. He is a burden and liability for his present roommates.
  8. I (DAD) have had several roommates since my years in college and over 25 years of marriage. LT has none of this experience and is unwilling to learn how to be a good roommate. Typically, roommates share house chores, living expenses, and help each other. This does not happen at 1561 Shoreview and the landlady is unwilling to affect changes.
  9. One could conclude that this viewing (sole diet) of fiction and violence on TV has adversely affected his sense of reality and aberrant behavior.
  10. LT typically spends his day in front of the living room TV for ten consecutive hours every day. Westerns are watched in the morning, police dramas in the afternoon, two episodes with Chuck Norris as “Texas Ranger”, and two episodes of Star Trek in the evening. Gunfire, explosions, hand-to-hand combat, and other loud disturbances are not conducive for DAD’s comedy writing.
  11. LT does little to support the household either by doing chores or contributing money for common household materials. LT routinely takes food and paper products belonging to others without asking or even saying thanks.
  12. DAD is having difficulties writing comedy at his home office. LT is more than a distraction. The latest stay-in-place state orders have made matters worse. It is tragic for DAD.
  13. LT is prone to violence and fighting. Episodes on May 2, April 22, March 13, February 28, January 13, and November 30 are some of the worst.
  1. Presentation in favor of the “Move Out Restraining Order” for Leland Terry (LT) protecting David A. Dailey (DAD) and the other three roommates as well.

LT is prone to violence and fighting. Episodes on May 2, April 22, March 13, February 28, January 13, and November 30 are some of the worst.

DAD is having difficulties writing comedy at his home office. LT is more than a distraction. The latest stay-in-place state orders have made matters worse. It is tragic for DAD.

LT does little to support the household either by doing chores or contributing money for common household materials. LT routinely takes food and paper products belonging to others without asking or even saying thanks.

LT typically spends his day in front of the living room TV for ten consecutive hours every day. Westerns are watched in the morning, police dramas in the afternoon, two episodes with Chuck Norris as “Texas Ranger”, and two episodes of Star Trek in the evening. Gunfire, explosions, hand-to-hand combat, and other loud disturbances are not conducive for DAD’s comedy writing.

One could conclude that this viewing (sole diet) of fiction and violence on TV has adversely affected his sense of reality and aberrant behavior.

I (DAD) have had several roommates since my years in college and over 25 years of marriage. LT has none of this experience and is unwilling to learn how to be a good roommate. Typically, roommates share house chores, living expenses, and help each other. This does not happen at 1561 Shoreview and the landlady is unwilling to affect changes.

The landlady operates 3-4 licensed care homes for the elderly and disabled. There are better places for LT to live. He is a burden and liability for his present roommates.

DAD has been cleaning up after him and trying to help improve LT’s quality of life for over a year without success.

LT was the last roommate added to this unlicensed care home. Tony Radovan became a resident before him. DAD has lived at 1561 since October 2017 (for over 2 years). Therefore, LT should be the first occupant to be moved out.

I (DAD) pray that the court will grant my request.

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