Bad Roommate – We cannot pick our roommates or family members

I am pleased and looking forward to Restraining Order hearing this Tuesday morning. The victim prays that the abuser will be ordered to move out.

The latest domestic violence incidents during May and April 2020 are described first:

  1. “Protected person” David A. Dailey (DAD) awoke in the middle of the night – around 12:30 – with muscle cramps and coughing. He noticed that LT (Leland Terry) had turned off the house heat sometime after 10:30 p.m. on May 7, 2020. It was 52 degrees outside and the bathroom window was left open. LT persists in turning off the house heater when he goes to bed; asking no one if it is OK.
  2. LT violated the 6-foot distance rule on May 6, 7, 8, and 9th more than once every day. No apologies are ever offered.
  1. In addition to infractions of ‘social distancing’, LT does not observe other preventive measures recommended by the CDC. He rarely washes his hands, too. Never wears a mask around the house. Rarely does laundry. Does not shower every day. Sorts through the food donations from Samaritan House without washing his hands first.
  1. Typically, LT wakes up before his roommate TR, coughs, sneezes, and other unsanitary things while sitting on the side of his bed facing his roommate, rather than doing such behaviors in the bathroom.
  1. Sometime before May 7, 2020, LT cancelled two of four meals donated daily from Samaritan House. LT did so without speaking to any of his roommates. Roommate Antonio Radovan and LT are the only ones who were able to eat donated food throughout Mothers’ Day weekend.
  1. LT goads/urges on DAD into fighting him, saying “Hit me!” The specific dates were not recorded or logged. Roommate Tony Radovan has been a witness.
  1. When LT gets too close, like on May 2nd, DAD said, “Stay away from me. You stay away!”
  1. On Sunday, May 10, 2020, DAD found the Sunday newspaper he purchased for $3 in the trash.
  1. DAD is the victim of numerous passive-aggressive incidents.
  2. They both are relentless on their complaints of my coughing and sneezing – like I (DAD) have any control of where and when I cough and sneeze. They complained again on Thursday, May 14, 2020, of this and my passing of gas (farting), my burning of two saucepans dry of two saucepans during the last five (5) months.
  3. The “protected person” David Arthur Dailey, now may need more R.O.s; the latest against the spouse of Mr. Kanavao PeteloMrs. Katalina Petelo, who swung and hit him in the neck with her heavy metal walking cane on Monday, January 13, 2020 – in addition to the two (2) signed on Wednesday, December 12, 2019; incidentally, on Mr. Dailey’s 66th birthday.
  4. I (DAD) pray that the court will grant my request.
  5. LT was the last roommate added to this unlicensed care home. Tony Radovan became a resident before him. DAD has lived at 1561 since October 2017 (for over 2 years). Therefore, LT should be the first occupant to be moved out.
  6. DAD has been cleaning up after him and trying to help improve LT’s quality of life for over a year without success.
  7. The landlady operates 3-4 licensed care homes for the elderly and disabled. There are better places for LT to live. He is a burden and liability for his present roommates.
  8. I (DAD) have had several roommates since my years in college and over 25 years of marriage. LT has none of this experience and is unwilling to learn how to be a good roommate. Typically, roommates share house chores, living expenses, and help each other. This does not happen at 1561 Shoreview and the landlady is unwilling to affect changes.
  9. One could conclude that this viewing (sole diet) of fiction and violence on TV has adversely affected his sense of reality and aberrant behavior.
  10. LT typically spends his day in front of the living room TV for ten consecutive hours every day. Westerns are watched in the morning, police dramas in the afternoon, two episodes with Chuck Norris as “Texas Ranger”, and two episodes of Star Trek in the evening. Gunfire, explosions, hand-to-hand combat, and other loud disturbances are not conducive for DAD’s comedy writing.
  11. LT does little to support the household either by doing chores or contributing money for common household materials. LT routinely takes food and paper products belonging to others without asking or even saying thanks.
  12. DAD is having difficulties writing comedy at his home office. LT is more than a distraction. The latest stay-in-place state orders have made matters worse. It is tragic for DAD.
  13. LT is prone to violence and fighting. Episodes on May 2, April 22, March 13, February 28, January 13, and November 30 are some of the worst.
  1. Presentation in favor of the “Move Out Restraining Order” for Leland Terry (LT) protecting David A. Dailey (DAD) and the other three roommates as well.

LT is prone to violence and fighting. Episodes on May 2, April 22, March 13, February 28, January 13, and November 30 are some of the worst.

DAD is having difficulties writing comedy at his home office. LT is more than a distraction. The latest stay-in-place state orders have made matters worse. It is tragic for DAD.

LT does little to support the household either by doing chores or contributing money for common household materials. LT routinely takes food and paper products belonging to others without asking or even saying thanks.

LT typically spends his day in front of the living room TV for ten consecutive hours every day. Westerns are watched in the morning, police dramas in the afternoon, two episodes with Chuck Norris as “Texas Ranger”, and two episodes of Star Trek in the evening. Gunfire, explosions, hand-to-hand combat, and other loud disturbances are not conducive for DAD’s comedy writing.

One could conclude that this viewing (sole diet) of fiction and violence on TV has adversely affected his sense of reality and aberrant behavior.

I (DAD) have had several roommates since my years in college and over 25 years of marriage. LT has none of this experience and is unwilling to learn how to be a good roommate. Typically, roommates share house chores, living expenses, and help each other. This does not happen at 1561 Shoreview and the landlady is unwilling to affect changes.

The landlady operates 3-4 licensed care homes for the elderly and disabled. There are better places for LT to live. He is a burden and liability for his present roommates.

DAD has been cleaning up after him and trying to help improve LT’s quality of life for over a year without success.

LT was the last roommate added to this unlicensed care home. Tony Radovan became a resident before him. DAD has lived at 1561 since October 2017 (for over 2 years). Therefore, LT should be the first occupant to be moved out.

I (DAD) pray that the court will grant my request.

Human ‘Hurd Immunity’ is a Big Factor/Item for Analysis in order to Achieve POTUS Trump’s Goal of “Re-Opening USA Business, a.s.a.p.

Washington, D. C. – Good Friday, April 10, 2020 – HURD IMMUNITY MUST BE PREVALENT IN AMERICANS’ ANTIBODIES – In order to get America back to work and back to school, medical models and substantial statistics must be the basis for the “re-0pening” of business and a new-normal.

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Even Dr. Jerome Adams, the present kiss-ass national Surgeon General, would agree with public health officials and modelists. A body of evidence, data supporting suppression of the Covid19 Virus, and newly-developed treatments and preventive measures, are essential before the Executive Branch can cheerlead efforts to restore the country and world-leading economy.

 

[to be continued]

 

Credo offers Tips for Managing Social Distancing that turns into Social Isolation

Even if you haven’t heard it enough, we’re going to repeat it again: Stay at home. Practice social distancing. Flatten the curve.

But an unintended consequence of our efforts to slow a pandemic and keep our communities healthy is a real problem: loneliness and social isolation. As state and local governments issue quarantines and stay-at-home orders, many of us are living a new normal without in-person social interaction — and that can take a toll on our mental health.

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Do not get this bug. Not as deadly as a flu-bug, but bedbugs are a bitch!

Making matters worse, researchers have found that people who don’t feel connected to others over the long term are more likely to catch colds, experience depression and live shorter lives. One study even calculated the health risks of social isolation as equivalent to smoking 15 cigarettes a day. Even before the pandemic, loneliness was already widespread, with a national survey showing that more than 70 percent of young people and millenials and half of seniors felt lonely.

So how can we combat this new — hopefully short-term — reality of social distancing and isolation? Here are some tips to improve our health and stay connected.

Make a plan to connect with friends and family

Before the pandemic, many of us probably took for granted regular social interactions with our loved ones. Connecting could be more casual, and there were fewer concerns about meeting face-to-face. But with social distancing and sheltering orders, it’s become a lot more difficult, if not impossible and even unsafe.

Yet, simply saying you’ll stay in touch and actually connecting with loved ones, whether it’s over the phone, video or some other technology, are very different — and you may forget to find time. That’s why it can be so important to make a plan to connect with your friends and family to ensure you’re staying in touch to stave off loneliness. Just like in elections, where studies have shown that making a plan to vote increases the likelihood that you’ll show up to cast your ballot, be sure to make a regular plan to connect.

A great way to make your plan stick? Send a calendar invite. Here’s how to send a calendar invitation to multiple people on your iOS and Android devices to ensure everyone stays connected.

Plan a virtual happy hour

The coronavirus pandemic has spawned a new phenomenon: the rise of the virtual happy hour. People across the country have taken to FaceTime, Zoom, Google Hangouts and other platforms as a welcome way to share a drink (non-alcoholic drinks are always welcome!) with friends while we social distance.

There are many ways to enjoy your “quarantini.” The writers at Inc. suggest these tips to host your virtual happy hour:

  • Pick your video platform (Zoom, Google, Skype, etc)
  • Set a specific time for the event
  • Encourage your friends to bring a drink of their choosing
  • Make a plan for the conversation
  • If needed, gently guide the conversation

But watch out for “Zoom bombing”

Another phenomenon — and really unfortunate unintended consequence — of our new social distancing is the “Zoom Bomb.” As millions have shifted to working and learning from home, the popular video conferencing platform Zoom has become the go-to software for remote business, school and other activities.

The increased use of the platform has become a ripe target for hackers, who have exploited vulnerabilities in the software and taken over group video chats with hateful or obscene content. The FBI recently issued a warning that malicious actors could steal personal information over Zoom.

To prevent Zoom bombing, check out this article from PC Mag and some additional safety tips from the Anti-Defamation League.

Start or join a book club

Book clubs are cropping up everywhere during the coronavirus pandemic. Although many libraries have already closed, digital books are plentiful, so if you’re an avid reader (or not-so-avid, but want to become one), starting or joining a book club with your friends and family can be a great way to stay connected.

Not sure where to begin? Bustle has you covered with 10 tips on starting a digital book club.

Just want to join an existing book club? You’re in luck. Lots of virtual book clubs — each with unique themes and book choices — are welcoming new members across the globe. Here are ten suggested book clubs from Time. Or, you can join the “Quarantine Book Club” where you can chat directly with authors over Zoom.

Look out for those most at risk during this time

Even though we personally may feel isolated or lonely right now, there are others who may need our help, too. They are people in our community who could be suffering from mental health issues or chronic illnesses, our elderly neighbors who need basic necessities like groceries or medication or someone who is low-income or facing financial difficulties.

If you can, check on them and offer your assistance. They are feeling isolated and anxious too. They may not have internet access or family members who can assist. Here are some additional tips to help communities experiencing loneliness from AARP.

Amtrak Announces Covid-19 Precautions and Illinois Governor Let’s the Trump-Pence Administration Have It (shit) and Tell Them not to Sit in It

Illinois Governor John Pritzker was interviewed by CNN’s Erin Burnett this afternoon. The Governor explained that the feds restrained most of the excellent healthcare and medical research resources in Chicago and throughout the state.

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This is the latest from Amtrak:

The safety of our customers and employees is Amtrak’s top priority. We are closely monitoring the Coronavirus (COVID-19) and are taking action based on guidance from public health experts. In order to maintain a safe environment and address customer concerns, we are taking measures including:

Enhanced cleaning protocols. We have increased the frequency of cleaning service on our trains and at our stations.
Additional antibacterial products. We have increased the quantity of sanitizers and disinfectant wipes available for customers and employees throughout our trains and stations.
No change fees on bookings made through April 30, 2020. We are waiving change fees so you can book travel on Amtrak® with confidence, knowing you have the flexibility to change your plans.
We have temporarily suspended three trains that operate between New York and Washington (Trains 2401, 2402, 2403) due to lower demand and additional changes to our schedule are under consideration. Amtrak continues to operate 300 daily trains, including more than 100 daily trains on the Northeast Corridor and continues to serve all of our stations. If schedules are modified for any existing reservation, we will contact you to provide an update.
We will continue to respond to the latest on COVID‑19 with customer and employee safety top of mind.

Covid-19 March 2020 “Whatcha’ Gonna Do?!?” Public Health Officials Agree on 18 Thin’s, Resilience Has Been Left Off the List

This is the first of a multi-article essay about the current public health in the world. The US ranks in the top seven countries of Earth in the number of exeutions. Although President Donal J. Trump wants more deaths in the name of justice, so that the USA can rank higher that Red China in the quantity of executions.

Many Americans pray that the current viral issues do not hit close to home. Similarly with death by a firing squad, the Trump Administration is playing “Russian Roulette” with the lives of children, older Americans, disadvantaged citizens and immigrants, as well as vacationers on the Princess cruise line.

Tune in later today for the explanation why every person interested in living out their destimy should take better care of themselves and practice a number of RESILIENCE (to getting sick) techniques.

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Acting on what is coming out of Washington, D.C. alone is just not enough!

 

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Planning Games for an Adult Birthday Party – Revised March 2020

Yep, he is turning 67 this year and we were throwing a party Sunday he may forever remember.  Or since he is turning senile, he may not remember anything.

Using Cisco and Skype technology, we will allow anyone to the virtual party.

As with kid’s parties, the selection of games to play is very important.

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What party games would you prefer to play, ladies and gentlemen?

  1. Find the Banana
  2. Things Donald Trump would Say or Do
  3. Hide the Zucchini
  4. Card Tricks with Leland
  5. Nasty Deeds with the Birthday Boy
  6. Old Fashioned Scavenger Hunt
  7. Bury the Beaver
  8. Finding Baby Jesus
  9. Dancing with Mister Jelly
  10. Guess the Final Score
  11. Kickball — Shirts vs. Skins
  12. Oakland Raiders at Santa Clara 49ers
  13. Drinking Games
  14. Read-My-Mind
  15. Spin-the-Bottle
  16. Charades
  17. Russian Roulette – This game should be played last as a few guests, the birthday boy, or the hosts will be eliminated.

 

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Oh God Help US in California and the USA and on Earth

There is so much to pray for. We love many of our friends in-need but cannot ignore the messes in D.C. and the world.

Take up your cross, Take up your cross. which gives you strength, which makes your trembling spirit brave: Twill guide you to a better home and lead to victory over the grave.

Take up your cross, the Savior said…

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We beseech St. Pope John Paul II and many other saints to help The Trump Administration to “shape up or get out of the swamp” and retire in South Florida!

Elementary Schools Asked to Become “Sister/Brother Schools” Across the U.S.A.

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Proponent D.A.D. for Human Rights and Education

(The Dailey Sun-Chronicles ~ Woodside, California ~ October 29, 2019)   David Arthur Francis Niklas Dailey wishes that, during his lifetime, four parochial schools will partner and become “sister/brother schools.” Two elementary schools are in San Mateo and Menlo Park (CA), one located near the University of Notre Dame, and Glenwood Springs, Colorado.

The schools nominated to become “sister schools” are St. Stephen (Glenwood Springs, Archdiocese of Denver), St. Timothy (San Mateo, Archdiocese of San Francisco), Christ the King (South Bend, Indiana, Diocese of Ft. Wayne-South Bend), and St. Raymond (Menlo Park, Archdiocese of San Francisco) elementary schools.

There are many benefits of becoming “sister schools”:

  • Help one another in fundraising, communication, and education.
  • Allow all schools and parishes to expand their present building capacities.
  • Allow Christians to behave as Christians; more will appreciate learning about the life of Jesus Christ, Son of God and the B. V. M.
  • Pray for one another.
  • Reform or abolish the so-called Patriot Act.
  • Respect personal liberties and freedom.
  • Each six, seventh, and eighth grader would have one or three Catholic pen-pals across the country.
  • Eliminate bias and stigma against single Christian men, those seeking mental health care, victims of domestic abuse, and bullying.

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Editors’ Notes:

D.A.D. has earned Certified Safety Professional (CSP), Certified Manager (CM), and Registered Environmental Assessor (REA) designations with a M.S. in Public Health and Safety from Indiana University at Bloomington and also received two post-graduate certificates from the University of California, Santa Cruz (UCSC). He supports activities of Occupy San Francisco Peninsula, local high school districts, and has also practiced as a legislative advocate in three and as a paralegal in two states.

Buck was born in South Bend, Indiana, home of the University of Notre Dame, in December 1953. He received his first communion and confirmation at Christ the King (CK), learned to be an altar boy/server at CK during 4th grade and at Sacred Heart Parish on the campus of Notre Dame during 7th grade, attended Mass regularly at St. Stephen in 2014, participated in services at St. Raymond in 2016 and 2017, is also a member of East Palo Alto’s St. Francis of Assisi and Our Lady of the Pillar in Half Moon Bay, and went to St. Timothy in 2018 and 2019.

In 1992, D.A.D. lost an U.S. congressional race [to Anna Eshoo who is still employed in the D. C. ~ giving away American jobs locally via visas and green-cards] and in 1994 he tried to obtain more votes than popular Stanford Law Professor Tom Campbell to work in Sacramento becoming a California State Senator for human rights and services. D.A.D. spent over seven years at Lockheed during the Cold War, which was about seven years after earning his masters from Indiana University at Bloomington. After service between 2003 and 2008 as a California Departments of Public Health and Health Services’ Health Facilities Evaluator, he was illegally terminated and narrowly lost his judicial appeal versus current California Attorney General Kamala Harris, who now insists on running from the United States Senate to the presidency.

D.A.D. is a Past President of the Sons of the American Revolution – Silicon Valley Chapter – State (California) Director of the National Safety Management Society, former International Director of Communications for the American Society of Safety Engineers (ASSE), Past President of three Toastmaster clubs, and officer of two San Francisco Bay Area chapters of the ASSE.

Buck Dailey is a proud parent and publisher, member of the Green Party, author of books, screenplays, and web-blogs, Obama-Biden campaigner during his last presidential race, comedian and humorist, sports and culinary critic, business administrator, and environmental, health, security, and safety engineer.

He is a proponent of St. Vincent de Paul in Northern California, St. Louis, and Western Colorado.

DAD “fell in love at first site” in 2002 when he was on the island (Maui) with his wife and daughter while attending the Maui Writers Conference in Wailea. Buck has been chasing his dreams since then.

 

 

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When Life Gets Tough, the Tough Follow the Example and Teachings of Saint Pope John Paul II

Tuesday, October 22, 2019

It has been a few years since the canonization of both St. Pope John XXIII and St. Pope John Paul II. The 22nd was the annual feast day for the legendary John Paul II.

Outside of St. Stephen Church in Glenwood Springs (Archdiocese of Denver) is a magnificent statue of St. Pope John Paul II. The new generation can witness the greatness of Pope Francis I but older Christians can appreciate the papacy, and years prior to his ordainment, of Poland-born St. Pope John Paul II.

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Older Catholics still have vivid memories of John Paul. My favorite was his visit to Chicago but he traveled all over the world and made a noble attempt to reunite Roman Catholics with the Eastern Orthodox Church. Perhaps the seeds he planted will bloom during our life times. Certainly, Pope Francis I would support unification, which has not existed since the life of King/Pope Constantine.

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St. Pope John XXIII planted the seeds of ecumenicalism of all Christians but it was St. Pope John Paul II that developed and explained the ideas codified during the 1960s.

Please add your comments and memories to this short essay… or write to DaileySun@outlook.com.

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Oh God, Help Our World!

October 11, 2019

Today is the feast day of one of the greatest modern day popes: Saint Pope John the XXIII. It just happens that he was pope when I received my first communion and confirmation.

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Almighty and eternal God who in the Pope, Saint John XXIII gave to the whole world the shining example of a good shepherd, through his intercession, we may with joy spread abroad the fullness of Christian charity. Amen.

Nowadays, I am fortunate to have my friend Msrg. Father John Coleman nearby to offer me guidance. Father John will turn 94 years-old this coming January.

Father John at St. Francis

This is a photo of Father John at last weekend’s annual celebration of St. Francis of Assisi.